When we give up completely because we’ve already won someone’s heart, we tend to forget that we could
lose it. Obviously we can’t recreate the first few magical months that
occur when you first start dating a person forever, because the whole
comfort thing naturally won’t allow it. What we can do is make sure that both ends are having their needs met. Relationship
maintenance is crucial. As long as two people are mindful of the
other’s feelings, things are so much more likely to run smoothly.
Here’s the big picture: we can love being a social recluse or
butterfly, that’s not necessarily what’s important. At the end of the
day, the person you’re doing those things with is what matters. If you love
your partner, does it matter if you’re lying on the couch in matching
Cheeto-finger stained Snuggies or dancing the night away in a lively
club? Absolutely not. Different strokes for different folks has never
been truer than when it comes to couples and their preferences. Sure, it
helps to keep things interesting and add a dash of spontaneity here or
there, but excitement and pleasure come in many different forms to many
different people. As long as you’re making someone feel as happy as you
do, the sharp objects will turn to speed bumps, and the tires will grow
more durable.
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